"How do we
permanently break the patterns/cycles that no longer serve us, both of this
life, or ones taken from previous lives?"
Come now child it has been a
while since we last talked but there are some very interesting concepts that
you are wanting some work to move on so let’s get started.
Like all things in your existence
your cycles or patterns in each life that appear repetitive are there to ensure
that you learn a certain core lesson that you decided to face within each life
that you have experienced. Now at times it may appear that you are experiencing
a similar ethos for each one – a similar vibration or action that is leading to
respond in the same way – it is your choice as always to move away from the
usual choice – and you will know the usual choice because it is not only what
you have done in your current incarnation many times perhaps but also it will
feel extremely familiar almost as though you have got yourself into a
‘scratched record’ mentality. You will know it to be wrong yet you find
yourself there – but you have chosen to be there so there must be something
about that feeling of ‘being there’ that is attracting you so what do you think
it might be?
*It is at the time of awareness
of the repeating pattern or behaviour that needs careful insightful journeying
to determine what it is that you LIKE about this state. Oh we can hear you now
– why would I like something that makes me feel so terrible or unsettled or sad
or angry and confused? The thing you need to harness here is the term
Repeating. You are doing something that feels extremely familiar – sure it may
not be nice in your terms, but it is not only something that you are used too
but something that you expect. So is it this expectation that causes the cycle
to occur? Is it the familiarity that causes the situation to happen freely
because as you know you create your own situations/reality? It can actually be both of these things. So
there you have it – you want familiarity, you want sameness, you want a certain
understanding about a situation that you have gone through repeatedly and
survived – until the next time. And therein lays the cycle – you are there
because it is familiar – and you are there because you know that you will get
out of it.
So ask yourself – Can I approach it different that also feels familiar? Can I speak from the heart from truth rather than the head from consequence to action? Can Truth of where it is you are wanting to go towards or too be that which guides you effectively rather than finding yourself in the same old cycle of depreciating affect. It is that which feels familiar regardless if good or bad that brings you into this state so replace it with something familiar that you do enjoy that you do wish to occur, that you do want to happen. The more you do this positive familiar action, the more likely you are to start a whole new cycle. So here is an example
You are moving in life and
everything is going on very smoothly, sure it is chaotic, sure it is busy and
you are not quite sure how you are able to do the many things in your day. Then
you find one day – that something goes out of total control and you are unable
to fix a situation that you would rather be another way – oh here we go again
you tell yourself. It goes from one thing after the other and it feels as
though everyone is against you, your actions and the ways that you are doing
things. It makes you feel frustrated because things were going on so well – why
does it ‘always’ have to be like this. You feel as though you are not worthy –
that life always brings you into a state of uncertainty and unrest but you were
so positive and then things go wrong – this is just so typical. Here you are
again. You doubt yourself , you doubt the people around you and even you are
starting to not sleep at night because you are worried about what the next day
will bring – and what things that you need to do to rectify where all this went
– why did it go wrong – what did you do wrong? Ohhh this is just not fair. “I
deserve better than this – but like last time I know I can do this. I just need
to do something to get myself up there because I know I can.” Then you are reminded that you are strong
individual – that you have been through a lot in life to challenge you and
although you feel really bad right now you know it is not forever so you just
ride the tide until that light starts shining like it always does again. If it
does not then you know that something will happen eventually – just that you
want it to happen now. Time goes on in your linear perception of various
emotions, experiences and happenstance within this familiar pattern until you
are able to work through it and you find yourself back up again into a place
that you are fully content once more – for how long? Who knows!
Does any of that feel familiar to you? Oh I am sure if you put relationship(s) / colleagues and friends / work place environments within this above dialogue there will be something that will stand out familiar to you? So how do you break that pattern? It all comes to changing a sequence within this very generic situation. So at what point do you change? Where everything is going smoothly? Where things are chaotic and busy? Where things start to go out of control? When the emotions and feelings take over? When you have your inspirational dialogue? While you are waiting for things to change? Ultimately any part that seems the MOST familiar is what you need to change to turn it into something new that will become familiar.
Does any of that feel familiar to you? Oh I am sure if you put relationship(s) / colleagues and friends / work place environments within this above dialogue there will be something that will stand out familiar to you? So how do you break that pattern? It all comes to changing a sequence within this very generic situation. So at what point do you change? Where everything is going smoothly? Where things are chaotic and busy? Where things start to go out of control? When the emotions and feelings take over? When you have your inspirational dialogue? While you are waiting for things to change? Ultimately any part that seems the MOST familiar is what you need to change to turn it into something new that will become familiar.
So how do you change something
that feels familiar even if it is not nice – into something that is positive
AND familiar.
Can you remember a moment where
you felt safe, you felt provided for? Can you remember a time when you stood in
that moment and were completely content and grateful? How it consumed your very
being. Even if the moment is fleeting – even if it occurred when you were
child. Even if it was within dream state or imagination. That feeling is and
will always be familiar.
As you look around your chaos – bring that ultimate feeling of gracious contentment to fill you and smile at the silly chaos that is around you? Hilarious to allow us to get so caught up on things that is part of life – is life – life lessons to learn from to fill your glory box of treasures called experience.
As you look around your chaos – bring that ultimate feeling of gracious contentment to fill you and smile at the silly chaos that is around you? Hilarious to allow us to get so caught up on things that is part of life – is life – life lessons to learn from to fill your glory box of treasures called experience.
Things start to go wrong – fill
yourself up with gratitude again because obviously you are meant to be doing
something else, either your God Source or Universal consciousness has something
else that is better for you that you have ASKED FOR. Remember you are putting
out into the universe what it is you wish to achieve and grow from. Do not be
alarmed when what you think you need and what the universe knows you need are
two different things. So you have a new path to take which means that you are
on a better direction for what you truly desire. That’s AWESOME! As you humans
will put it.
If you find yourself unawares in
a state where your emotions and feelings are very humanistic – sadness,
depression, anger , hate , jealousy, revenge, all those delicious states of
unsettlement that you humans really dislike with a passion yet you still allow
it – much to our confusion. Then ask yourself the really hard core question –
what am I getting for ME out of this? Be
brutally honest with this analysis and you will find that you are punishing
yourself for something that is not your doing so why allow it? What familiar
feeling can you put in place of that which will over ride this shadow to
pass? LOVE – love for self, love for
life, love for worthiness, and love for new beginnings which ultimately this
state is because you know that from this new seeds are planted to be sown in
your not too distant human future.
So when you find yourself in
familiar territory that you do not like, then replace it with familiar
thoughts, feelings, ideas, creations that you DO like. You are going to say “oh
it is not that simple” but we will dispute that – with thought training, with
essence acceptance of what is the Truth that lays within you – you can and will
do this when you realise that being Loved, being Happy is also a familiar
Source feeling because Love is in abundance where your Over soul lays in
intrigue with your situation.
So reach within for the Truth,
for the Familiar which is a lovely connection that you will have to Divine
Source so that you can truly break the pattern of which you do not wish to find
yourself in again.
Cheron of the 12 Origin
Channeled by Phoenix 5th December, 2013