Breaking Life Patterns/Cycles

"How do we permanently break the patterns/cycles that no longer serve us, both of this life, or ones taken from previous lives?"

Come now child it has been a while since we last talked but there are some very interesting concepts that you are wanting some work to move on so let’s get started.

Like all things in your existence your cycles or patterns in each life that appear repetitive are there to ensure that you learn a certain core lesson that you decided to face within each life that you have experienced. Now at times it may appear that you are experiencing a similar ethos for each one – a similar vibration or action that is leading to respond in the same way – it is your choice as always to move away from the usual choice – and you will know the usual choice because it is not only what you have done in your current incarnation many times perhaps but also it will feel extremely familiar almost as though you have got yourself into a ‘scratched record’ mentality. You will know it to be wrong yet you find yourself there – but you have chosen to be there so there must be something about that feeling of ‘being there’ that is attracting you so what do you think it might be?

*It is at the time of awareness of the repeating pattern or behaviour that needs careful insightful journeying to determine what it is that you LIKE about this state. Oh we can hear you now – why would I like something that makes me feel so terrible or unsettled or sad or angry and confused? The thing you need to harness here is the term Repeating. You are doing something that feels extremely familiar – sure it may not be nice in your terms, but it is not only something that you are used too but something that you expect. So is it this expectation that causes the cycle to occur? Is it the familiarity that causes the situation to happen freely because as you know you create your own situations/reality?  It can actually be both of these things. So there you have it – you want familiarity, you want sameness, you want a certain understanding about a situation that you have gone through repeatedly and survived – until the next time. And therein lays the cycle – you are there because it is familiar – and you are there because you know that you will get out of it.

So ask yourself – Can I approach it different that also feels familiar?  Can I speak from the heart from truth rather than the head from consequence to action? Can Truth of where it is you are wanting to go towards or too be that which guides you effectively rather than finding yourself in the same old cycle of depreciating affect. It is that which feels familiar regardless if good or bad that brings you into this state so replace it with something familiar that you do enjoy that you do wish to occur, that you do want to happen. The more you do this positive familiar action, the more likely you are to start a whole new cycle. So here is an example

You are moving in life and everything is going on very smoothly, sure it is chaotic, sure it is busy and you are not quite sure how you are able to do the many things in your day. Then you find one day – that something goes out of total control and you are unable to fix a situation that you would rather be another way – oh here we go again you tell yourself. It goes from one thing after the other and it feels as though everyone is against you, your actions and the ways that you are doing things. It makes you feel frustrated because things were going on so well – why does it ‘always’ have to be like this. You feel as though you are not worthy – that life always brings you into a state of uncertainty and unrest but you were so positive and then things go wrong – this is just so typical. Here you are again. You doubt yourself , you doubt the people around you and even you are starting to not sleep at night because you are worried about what the next day will bring – and what things that you need to do to rectify where all this went – why did it go wrong – what did you do wrong? Ohhh this is just not fair. “I deserve better than this – but like last time I know I can do this. I just need to do something to get myself up there because I know I can.”  Then you are reminded that you are strong individual – that you have been through a lot in life to challenge you and although you feel really bad right now you know it is not forever so you just ride the tide until that light starts shining like it always does again. If it does not then you know that something will happen eventually – just that you want it to happen now. Time goes on in your linear perception of various emotions, experiences and happenstance within this familiar pattern until you are able to work through it and you find yourself back up again into a place that you are fully content once more – for how long?  Who knows!

Does any of that feel familiar to you?  Oh I am sure if you put relationship(s) / colleagues and friends / work place environments within this above dialogue there will be something that will stand out familiar to you? So how do you break that pattern? It all comes to changing a sequence within this very generic situation. So at what point do you change? Where everything is going smoothly?  Where things are chaotic and busy? Where things start to go out of control? When the emotions and feelings take over? When you have your inspirational dialogue? While you are waiting for things to change? Ultimately any part that seems the MOST familiar is what you need to change to turn it into something new that will become familiar.

So how do you change something that feels familiar even if it is not nice – into something that is positive AND familiar.

Can you remember a moment where you felt safe, you felt provided for? Can you remember a time when you stood in that moment and were completely content and grateful? How it consumed your very being. Even if the moment is fleeting – even if it occurred when you were child. Even if it was within dream state or imagination. That feeling is and will always be familiar.
As you look around your chaos – bring that ultimate feeling of gracious contentment to fill you and smile at the silly chaos that is around you? Hilarious to allow us to get so caught up on things that is part of life – is life – life lessons to learn from to fill your glory box of treasures called experience.

Things start to go wrong – fill yourself up with gratitude again because obviously you are meant to be doing something else, either your God Source or Universal consciousness has something else that is better for you that you have ASKED FOR. Remember you are putting out into the universe what it is you wish to achieve and grow from. Do not be alarmed when what you think you need and what the universe knows you need are two different things. So you have a new path to take which means that you are on a better direction for what you truly desire. That’s AWESOME! As you humans will put it.

If you find yourself unawares in a state where your emotions and feelings are very humanistic – sadness, depression, anger , hate , jealousy, revenge, all those delicious states of unsettlement that you humans really dislike with a passion yet you still allow it – much to our confusion. Then ask yourself the really hard core question – what am I getting for ME out of this?  Be brutally honest with this analysis and you will find that you are punishing yourself for something that is not your doing so why allow it? What familiar feeling can you put in place of that which will over ride this shadow to pass?  LOVE – love for self, love for life, love for worthiness, and love for new beginnings which ultimately this state is because you know that from this new seeds are planted to be sown in your not too distant human future.

So when you find yourself in familiar territory that you do not like, then replace it with familiar thoughts, feelings, ideas, creations that you DO like. You are going to say “oh it is not that simple” but we will dispute that – with thought training, with essence acceptance of what is the Truth that lays within you – you can and will do this when you realise that being Loved, being Happy is also a familiar Source feeling because Love is in abundance where your Over soul lays in intrigue with your situation.

So reach within for the Truth, for the Familiar which is a lovely connection that you will have to Divine Source so that you can truly break the pattern of which you do not wish to find yourself in again.

Cheron of the 12 Origin

Channeled by Phoenix 5^th December, 2013

What is Desire - A spiritual point of view?

There are varying origins for desire
Material - with the attainment of gain in fear of lack 
Emotional - with the choice to be in states that are familiar 
Spiritual - with the awareness of All that Is 
Psychological - with the human attachment to understanding of Self 
Environmental - with the awareness of how Self interacts within each environment
Egomind - directed by incarnation experience 
Heart - directed by Source and Soul Plan

The origins can also overlap in how the desired thought is manifested because as you know although we may explain in apparent layers, but it is a fractal experience. Desire can be fleeting , or focused and that is something that is based on choice,  however  how much forward momentum and energy you put into your desired focus or thought. determines how this moves out into the universal ether, that in turn stimulates the manifesting powers of creation.

What you need to ask yourself when you have a focused thought , " is this desire for my highest good as a Soul or as a Human or Both " because you need to ensure that to remain on your life path to reach your purpose , desire cannot be the only focus for your growth potential. Love is more powerful than desire - because Love is pure. Desire is effected by a great many origins and aspects. Pure Love is not - it just Is.

Desire generally comes with expectation, which can effect the overall outcome in manifesting them. You can have a focused desire, however if one of your emotional origins desires something - such as happiness - and your psychological origins states that You are not Worthy,  a battle of the 'origins' ensues - if that makes sense.


What needs to happen is that all origins states, mentioned above, are working cohesively together to ensure that your chosen desire is embraced in pure love to ensure that the manifestation of it is created with ease. Collective agreement is needed and all origins are working together whether people are aware  or not.

This is why you see some people just get the world handed to them on a silver platter , so to speak ,while others struggle just to get out of bed in the morning.
Have a look at the above origins for Desire once more.
If you have materialistic focus , and are excited to embrace all aspects emotionally, and know that you are destined to receive as part of your soul contract, and you know that You deserve it and surround yourself with an environment that helps bolster your desired focus - then your Egomind and Heartsong are working collectively. These people always succeed.

If your psychological and emotional origin do not believe in Soul contracts - but you knowwwwwww (where from we may ask) that they are deservant of the things they desire - in a way they are still allowing the Source energies to be in alignment and work in collaboration.

Cheron - Channeled Partner of Phoenix Paton

Intuition - Advantages and Disadvantages

Some Advantages of Intuition :

Allow you a possible understanding of how a situation may pan out

Allow you to make safe relationships with those that are compatible with you

Bring you closer to your Inner Truth

Give you a sense of direction in life

Allow you to walk with confidence and courage

To have an inner strength that you consult with

Connect you to your Divine Soul in Source/ Heaven

To assist you in realising that you are 'not alone'

Some disadvantages to Intuition

Clarity is not always assumed

Confusion between what you are intuiting vs your Ego mind

It takes some time to build up trust in it

Learn by acting on your intuition but takes faith

Not learned in daily human life in a school but through experience

It is a pathway in developing your intuition lovelies - and it can take some time, trial and error and belief that you are not imagining things that are occurring around you. This can be effected by your social and inner beliefs - especially regard to Self . But remember - everyone has the ability to build on their intuition and is not for just the 'special'

So what do you think, some of the Positives and Negatives of Intuition are for you ?


Phoenix Paton

The Need to Be All for Others - Why do we do this?

There are many reasons why many of us feel the need to help others

• Because it is our life's purpose
• Because we have a void we are trying to fill in feeling worthy
• Because we feel that we have the answers 
• Because we do not like feeling bad so we make others feel good
• to give us a sense of a purpose
• because it comes so naturally

Thing is though - from many harsh personal lessons - I have learned over and over and over (took me a while to learn ) that;

1) I cannot fix everyone - they have their own life to lead

2) that everyone is well within their own rights to create their own issues and reality

3) they people do not learn the lesson if you keep giving freely - they will repeat a possible bad cycle

4) that we are not here to fix people - we are here to experience with people and learn from each other

5) that you cannot give effectively to others if you - yourself - is empty. Once again it is just you trying to fill a void of worthiness

take from the above what you feel is right of course. But In watching two healers working with an elderly couple one day - the female was terminal (cancer) the husband was heart broken and wanted her 'fixed'. In watch it appeared the healers were doing more for the husband rather than the wife. Everyone has their own experience and lesson and although we can help - we cannot or should not take away that which is not for someones highest good.... otherwise they just return to experience a similar pattern of life (if that makes sense)

If people want to change and grow and develop they will , regardless of what input you have - sure you may provide ideas and loving support - but their journey is driven by them

Phoenix Paton
Phoenix Spiritual Connection

Intuitive is Your Experience

Intuition comes in various forms - generally / specifically within your life - and also through Seeing , Hearing , Feeling , Knowing , Smelling , touching , - can you see what I am doing here - I am naming the many 'Clairs' that is out there

Clairvoyance - see

Clairaudient - hear

Clair empathy - feel

Clairsentient - know

Clair scent - smell

Clairangency- touch

Everyone has one that is the strongest - but with time and practice and adopting and taking notice each and everyone will come into strength as you grow in your intuition

If I was to ask you - to point to where you think your intuition comes from within your physical body - where would it be?

Many will point to their solar plexus / or mid abdomen - and they would be right

Others maybe will point to their third eye - very good very good - and they would be right

Or you will go for the lower gut - where you have that gut feeling - Ohhh yep - there is a very good place and it works there too

Everywhere is right because you know what - your whole physical body is a conduit for message both outside and inside. When I say outside - I am talking about peoples aura and their external energy that they radiate which brings messages in and out. And what occurs within dependent on the type of person you are and how you operate.

There is no right or wrong - some may here that little voice in their head or on their shoulders - others feel that emotional pull that stems mid abdomen

So when you become aware of how you receive messages that stimulate your intuition then you will grow but I digress that is later on in the week.

Soooo where is YOURS lovelies

Phoenix Paton

Phoenix spiritual connection

Intuitive Journey

We may all take different paths to where our intuition is leading us. I totally immerse myself in my spirituality and intuitive growth and development - conversely my lovely partner would prefer to remain pleasantly unaware at the moment and I am currently trying to work with that to ensure that we remain true to each other on this journey

You will get some people who are strongly intuitive yet they have people in their lives that are almost the complete opposite OR if they are lucky they will have someone that will walk hand in hand on the same path complimenting each other along the way. That is relevant to our current soul lessons that we are here to learn.

But I do believe that we can unite as One along our eclectic journey discovering amazing things through intuition whether we call it a Higher connection - or the inner voice within. Go with what feels comfortable for you - at this current moment. You may find things change and you may push yourself harder to increase your intuition. You may even have times when you want to hide away from the information that you are getting and your shields go up big time and you retreat.

either way - this is YOUR journey , which is under YOUR control by YOUR choices - so enjoy the path and if you are able to bring Intuition to Light in your life - then may it be with LOVE - always

Do you have people in your life that you connect with along your intuitive journey ? or struggle with those close to you ?

How do you make this work for you / all those involved

So now that we know we have Intuition - what does it feel like?

Well because we all experience things in our own ways - you will perhaps have different ways of identifying with it, connecting to it, understanding it, and making it a part of you.

Intuition comes in differing waves of intensity - to a niggling feeling in the back of your mind, or a full blown 'spidey sense' wave of energy that goes over your entire body.

There are those that go through life not really knowing that they are receiving messages from all different energy sources that surround them. And that their intuition - something that everyone has - is listening and determining possible action/reaction/outcome for the energy received. If it is important your intuition will relay messages for your conscious mind to make sense of however your conscious mind is not always a willing participant in 'listening

Everyone is on a different evolutionary path when it comes to embracing Intuition within their lives and that all comes down to choice and perhaps belief. But everyone is very capable of growing their intuition if they can work through the various barriers that may be in place through social or life conditioning.

Are you ready to embrace your intuition - let’s see who how many are ready to affirm this.... and say YES I AM!

Phoenix Paton
Phoenix Spiritual Connection

Identifying your Primary Intuitive Sense

I wrote this last year - this is about identifying your Primary Intuitive sense. Some of you will have some that are very strong and obvious, others will have 1-2 that stand out! Have a read and share what you believe you are currently   <3

Are you a thinker or Knowing Intuitive ?

Those that have an inate sense of knowing will almost get a precog understanding of what is about to occur or is occurring with each moment during important 'downloads' of information. When asked a question about a topic that they do not know much about, information will just flow from the amazing connection that they can have with Source/Heaven/Universal consciousness. They will look at things and say wow how did I totally know that, without the skill to be learned professionally. They may have been called Know it Alls - or big headed or all the various names that come with having a sense of awareness and having the ability to speak their mind. They can be outcasted and feel like an outsider at times because people do not always welcome being told something that they do not wish to face.

However they are also amazing friends if you allow them into a life - a 'go to' person for when people want advice or a source of clarity from. They can be good listeners sometimes, however they generally have the answer for you before you have even finished explaining things to them in its entirety.

Any of this seem familiar to you? I know it does for me personally because I am a Knowing intuitive and have been called all the know-it-all names under the sun. Now I know why and also because I have embraced this - I am finding other clairs are developing.

Much love to you

A person who feels deeply - empathic?

Those people who have struggled with emotion most of their lives are generally people who feel so strongly not just their own feelings but also everything and everyone around them. Sometimes it feels as though you are the major extreme when it comes to which emotion you are occupying today. Just like having all seasons in one day, these people can all key emotions in one day - happiness, sadness, anger, bliss - and it can make them feel as though they completely off the emotional grid and out of control. When they become more aware of how to control their reactions to life - then the overwhelming emotions become more balanced dependent on what is going on in life.

Sometimes they have a tendency to be over reactive but this is not a bad thing - it is their way of releasing the intuitive energy so that they may be in the moment with clarity. They can really be very hard on themselves during times of heightened emotion however as long as they are able to voice their emotions without judgement they can generally start to make sense of the reasons behind the emotion. When they can do that - being an Empath can be very rewarding as well as useful in assisting those around them, and also themselves.

Awareness of being an Empath and how they observe and absorb all energies not only their own , but those around and universally - is the key factor to understanding why they are how they are. Determining which is their own emotion and which is others/universal is important. This allows them to ensure that they can shield from others energies when their own emotions take control (more on shielding in the week)

Do you find that you have overwhelming emotions and reactions to anything and everything ? do you feel deeply ?  How do you cope with ?

<3 

A visual person?

There are those people who when they look at something, they know that it is off balance or that there needs to be something that has to be addressed. A visual person can with just a quick glance take a look at someone or an environment and know when there is an action that needs to take place. Some will see events before they actually occur within their minds eye. Those people will also have extremely vivid dreams and are strongly encouraged to have dream journals. 

They will also be drawn to symbols - things will stand out - almost as though it comes into extreme focus as they look at something/someone. Symbols are something that will call to them from time to time and they may feel the need to investigate the symbol and to what it could mean however they are strongly encouraged to take a look within , rather than mr google :)  to determine what the symbol actually means for themselves.

They will be very interested in the colors of the world and how they are all integrated - they will also get a feel for a place just by these colors - and dependent on the color they will also know what is needed to be put into this environment to liven it up - or tone it down dependent on what is needed. These people may enjoy creative arts especially involving painting , drawing , graphic art , interior design, landscape artists for an example.

Things make sense to them more when they can see something - rather than hear about it so they are people that learn from seeing rather than from doing initially. 

These people will also have the ability to see 'aura' with practice if they are not innately doing it already - people will have a certain color - and they will understand and know it as soon as they walk into the room, they will see it straight away. Nothing much can be hidden from these people - they can tell a lie from the truth just by looking at you. They are people that always look deeply into anothers eye - almost to see their soul and people find this uncomfortable at times because they see with clarity the reality behind the illusion.

<3

Do you prefer to Hear from the horses mouth?

These people can hear intergrity , truth , and knowlege in the things that they hear or are being told. They also the ones that really rely on their inner voice - the little being that lets them know things by telling them the path to take. These people will be drawn to music and sound - some may even find sound to be oversenstive at times that it is just too much. They know what sounds good and what doesnt. They are not a fan of loud noise or sudden noises for it makes them tense up and be on guard

Those who work within their auditory senses find that just by listening to something they can actually 'hear between the lines' of what is really being saying by the nuances and inflection of tone and voice. They can ultimately be the human version of a 'truth detector' so even attempting to lie to these people will never work. They will hear it straight away.

These people will enjoy sounds of all types but will have specific sounds that they do prefer and that which they stay well clear of. Even listening to a song will take them on an amazing journey that their intuition will take them on and through this they can determine the next part of their journey.

When they become more aware of their inner voice and start to listen intently then they will find that the voice will become stronger and not so timid. At times they will be overwhelmed with a ringing sound in their ears  - or their ears will feel like they are under water. Some experience terrible ear pressure or pain. If that is the case that means they are either not hearing something that they need too OR they need to start listening more intently. These people can control this intense information that they receive through hearing - but may need to ask that the intuition line be turned down a notch or too until they get used to working with the direct communication that they are receiving.

Blessings and much love - so are you 'listening ' hehehe

Do you like to touch to help you connect ?

From the moment these people are born , they respond to touch - either what they give to others or what they receive from others. They can also tell what is going on with someone with just touching them, as brief or as long as they are in contact. There is much in the way of information that flows when two energies come together - as you all know  - there is vibration in anything and when two vibrations come together then there is a communication of sorts regardless of what is said/ heard/ seen. Touch brings the subconsious message between two objects - inanimate or animate - it is irrelevant.

Many people who enjoy touch go into avenues of healing - whether it actually involves touch - but the opportunity to be able to help another just with a healing touch is a pull that those people strong in touch intuition - they are drawn to it. They do have a natural  healing ability for they have an innate knowing of what energies are flowing just by the touch of their hands to the person. In time they realise that touch is not required for the energy can flow freely as they learn to 'touch vibration' and allow it to flow naturally to do is magical work.

Those who are hypersensitive to touch are almost the opposite and keep people at arms length without allowing them into their personal bubble. In fact their bubble may be bigger than most because of all the information that they can glean from just being around people.

They talk using their hands and also they touch from time to time as they communicate with others. Generally their hands are warm and can even get a sense of the environmental energies just by lifting their hands up and scanning. As unique as that sounds you will find that these people do this automatically.

The more these people become aware of their innate touch ability the bigger the scope and they can actually send energy from their hands globally. However it is up to the individual and what avenue they choose to go into. They may not even be healers - they may become other professions but they will always use their sense of touch to get a feel for their audience and they will touch you on the shoulder or knee or which way is socially acceptable at the time. 

They love to hug

How do you feel about those who touch you ?  Do you mind people coming into your personal space for a hug /  kiss on the cheek ? Do you speak with your hands? Do you touch as you communicate.

Much love AND huggs <3

Phoenix Paton ©